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Is he/she really your soulmate???

Posted by casanova on 14 April 2011

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Too often we confuse a connection with someone as being in love. Having a connection with someone is just that, a connection. I personally believe in past lives and reincarnation and definitely feel that along my path I have met several people from other lifetimes. However, just because I have been with someone in a past life and feel that soul connection, this does not mean that we should be together in a relationship in this lifetime. Sometimes how they behave in this lifetime is not in line with how they were in another lifetime.

I remember being in my 20's and dating a girl named X. The first time we met we spent over five hours just talking. It felt like I had met a very old friend. It was comfortable, easy we had so much in common on all levels and I felt like I had met my soulmate. We spent four months together in a whirlwind of a relationship. I had never felt this way about anyone. There was a palpable energy that moved through us both when we were together.
At about five months, she moved away to pursue another endeavor and we stayed very connected, even until this day, however we did end our romantic relationship. Along with other challenges we had, I realized something very important in this relationship.

Confusing past life connection with love is common. Figuring out if it truly is love can be tricky, but not impossible. For instance, acknowledging that you have a past life connection with someone is wonderful, but if they do things that are not in line with who you are or what you want in your life then no matter how deeply you might feel connected to them on a soul . This is where Emotional Discipline, comes into play. Emotional discipline is when you have to use your conscious thinking processes to make a better decision for yourself and keep your emotions disciplined to be able to listen to reason. I understand all too well how difficult it is, however, it will save you much heartache.

Remember, just because you feel that past life connection it does not mean it's love! Who knows the person who you feel this connection to could have been your enemy in that past life.

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